You know what really grinds my gears... MEN! Agree to Disagree.

I know some of yall will disagree with me but im sorry but there are some things that has been bugging me for a minute and I find it hella annoying and I wish that this is where it would stop. I know some guys will be like "Not all men are like this" and some will say that "girls act like this to" but in my world, I know whats right to me and I know how I should be treated and respected.

First off, I cant stand men that dont know how to handle the word No, or in this case Rejection but it works both ways doesnt it? Like, if you ask me out and I say no and then you get madd and go off in this frenzy on why I WONT date you. Thats the number 1 thing, dont be trying to make me feel badd that I turned you down. Its not the end of the world. Get over it, deal with it, and stop crying about it. There are plenty of other girls that MIGHT want to date you but if you start being childish about the whole damn situation then how do you expect for a girl to want you.

Its annoying, and then you start asking me WHY i wont date you. Im not willing to explain myself to you.

1, your not my dad, you dont run my life and you dont need an explanation for my actions or my thoughts. Then start telling me that I keep turning down good men that will treat me right but last time i checked, if you are calling me a bitch and a hoe for turning you down that doesnt mean you will treat me right in a relationship. Twice, I had this happen because I said no. TWICE. Do you know how annoying it is, it makes me madd and its 2:19 in the morning and you want to be acting all pissy about it. C'mon son, Grow the FCK UP!

2, dont ask me about the type of men that I like, then when I tell you, dont try to put urself in that category cuz obviously if I said no you dont fit the category.

3, DRAMA! Some men come with drama and I hate it. If I know you have drama, ima say No. Like, I used to chill with you a lot, we used to be cool till u really started fckn up and you expect for me to believe that you didnt say it when you been jumpy and sometimey and all secrety about your whole life. As far as I know, you have a kid that someone else is taking care of, your dating some ugly fat lady with busted teeth, and you have no sex life and always trying to tlk about fckn to someone that is really not interested in the whole Sex talk conversation. I change subject all the time then you get mad about that. You know what that tells me. YOU NEED A LIFE!

Second of all, this really grinds my gears. Men that cheats. I dont think I have had this problem but I know someone that does and she doesnt even know it. Yea, my roommate knows what I am talking about. Its annoying when the guy finishes havin sex with his girl, leaves and calls up someone and asks if they can have sex and then she says no and he gets madd and starts complaining about it. Hence, the drama. Yes, he is dramatic and he also needs a life. He needs to grow up to. I think he needs to have a serious reality check, kick his ass out and have him live on his own.

Why are you going to call your best friend Grimey? I doubt that, as much shit as you put her though, you call HER grimey. Like, are you serious? For you to call yourself a man is an understatement, you going around fucking everybody, your basically a walking STD and you still trying to find someone to have sex every hour on the hour 365/366. Like, please do something with your life. SEX IS OVERRATED and I just don't understand. Then again, I don't have a dick so I might not understand.

I personally dont know why she puts up with his shit, if that was me, i woulda cut him off COMPLETELY without turning back but its her best friend not mine. So I dont know how strong there friendship is but it must not be that strong if he is constantly trying to put her down over dumb stuff saying that she not there for you and saying that she would be a nobody if it wasnt for you. YOUR A NOBODY DUDE, we all know you are grimey, we all know you are hella unfaithful, we all KNOW. The world does not revolve around you and I personally think that someone needs to come an just shoot you in the dick and see how it feels if you cant have sex for the rest of your life.

Another thing, I will not put no guy before me unless I NEEDED to. Last time i checked, my school refund money belongs to ME. ME MYSELF AND I. I hate wen my roommate says that she wants to buy her "boyfriend" a phone, is it me or is this RIDICULOUS! Its UTTERLY RIDICULOUS! I feel that if the man wants a phone, he would have a phone by now. Obviously, he has had AMPLE time to get him one, but he doesnt want one right now. Dont FORCE him to get a phone, let him have his peace and quiet and his alone time. You dont need to smother the man, he has a life.

Then you want to spend money on things that aren't important. A hotel room, for what, so you can sit there and be bored in there. Thats what a room is for, but I think that if you go to a hotel its for vacation purposes only and overnight staying. Thats a waste of valued money, 40 dollars of something that can be used for like, Soap and other stuff.

Its just a lot of things been bothering me right now, I dont know if my Army guy got sent off to haiti yet and I kno for a fact my Airforce guy has and Im worried about my navy guy. I hope he is ok. Its been a month. I miss them all a lot and just re-evaluating my life on this dulll day.

By the way, i got a last minute paper to write.